Stop, listen, think, act.....

Life certainly is something to ponder on...... We're unable to figure out anything about it but to live through it.... each and everyone's life might seem different... but the fact is that, were the same. Its just how we live our lives that matters... Apart of being in certain situations, we might think that our life is rather miserable or the worst life a person might have.... But less we bare in mind that, there are other people who are more less fortunate than we are... Its because we never hear them nag about it... We never even bother or to lend our ears to them even when they do, some might take it lightly....

That's the problem about we human... We never bother to stop to listen, listen to think, and listen to act.... All we think is what we have in mind... Never in others... People would certainly have different thoughts about things, and maybe perceptions about things, and maybe in term of them to you, and you to them... Why not take a moment to listen to what they have to say... Then, take your time to think about it... Not immediately judge him for what he/she is..... Things like these might be rare for a person to think about... Like the WHY question....Hey, it's the biggest question that plays most of the time in your head apart of when, where, what....

Like for example, there's this guy/girl whom you just met and might be meeting your entire life, happens to lack interact with you and the others, what would you say? Do you just burst out into saying "WHAT A SNOB!" and that you make too many bad assumption about him/her without even hold your thought of thinking bad, listen, then think and later act. Instead of thinking things short, try asking yourself...the why question.... Like so;

Why is he/she not friendly?

*well, maybe he/ she has a problem, shy, not suddenly "jumping happily" to new friends"

If that is so, why doesn't he/she consult me?

*you are new to him/her, they might not have a total trust on you, would you? or it's not time yet...*

Okay but then again, why?

*because .... He/she doesn't want to burden your life... see, they think about yours before theirs!* besides, who want's to be a pain in someone else' butt when yours' in yours..*

After all the why question, i believe you might have one of these answers for yourself......

"Owh I know! He/she feels rather inferior just by looking at anyone else...." (observe with whom your mixing at present, then compare to him/her)

"Ahaa..! Maybe feels rather discomfort on being in a whole new group (maybe not you....)"

"Gosh, how could I'ved slip?! I was rude not introducing myself first!"

I believe that we need time, and so does the rest. So we should have the thought of giving them and ourselves time to know each other if not more, a little detail would just do... So why set asside others if you fear them setting you asside.... Everything is for you to think of...I'm just reminding....