"My friend, 'A', has a bf. They kinda on and off and on and off.. They both hurt so much la. the boyfriend, last time kinda a 'flirt'er one.. til dis moment, my friend 'A' cant trust him 100%. but now, the problem is not only about the curiousness,bt then about how they treat each other. she told me last time, her bf raised his hand over her. but then he apologized to 'A' for being so rude. then ok back. but my friend is kinda likes to fight back or can be saying that influenced by how his bf treats her, if harsh, then she'll do back.
I feel pity on her. she looks so confuse about her feeling. To hold on or to let go. I can see that they both hurt so much but then they love each other.
I feel pity on her. she looks so confuse about her feeling. To hold on or to let go. I can see that they both hurt so much but then they love each other.
They gone through hard times together, giving chances.. I guess the bf do loves his gf so much but he can't get rid off his lil 'bad' attitude - 'flirtting'. all these while, this bf willing to do anything for my friend. he being there when she's in hard times. but then at the same time, he hurts her so bad. forgot her birthday, forgot her favorite drink, forgot her father's name, bluffing at her, say something rude, still she loves him so much.. few nights ago, she told me that she's getting tired.. she's getting weak.. she's bleeding inside, but she couldnt let the love go.. because she loves so much and couldnt stop loving.. i guess the bf feels the same too but then sometimes, he didnt realize that he hurts her so much...
after all, i just wish them the best and be strong...=)"
after all, i just wish them the best and be strong...=)"
I say.....
Okay... from all these.... i can say that... GUYS... they have a big big ego... take it from myself also, i realize it too... but not to that kinda of level... the good news is, He still loves her.... The bad news is, she will have to read between the lines...
You yourself have the answers here.... as you can see... He flirts.... But stay loyal to your friend... meaning to say that He loves her, but he can't fight his boyish nature to flirt, and be cheeky... guys are like dat... even though he may seem to flirt and see other girls, but he will always subconsciously reminds himself "Its impossible for me to get her (the one's he's flirting with or staring at) or coincidently meet her again....so why waste my time on wanting and blow sumthing that is here"...
After breaking up, being rough is normal.... both are behaving like that due to their history of breaking up.... both felt the pain and actually acts sarcastically between one and another... their rough and bad expression between them is actually their sarcastic way of saying... "you hurt me... am gonna hurt you" again ego sets both sides appart... and again, sumwhere in a room in them, there's a door leading to a "BUT....." room filled with words "... I LOVE HIM/HER"....
Forgetting birthdays, are normal... for guys, its not that important... well, it is important, but guys seemed to be care less... Girls have lots and lots of favourites... and he might have the problem of what is what... ahahah.... Bluffing is a way guys trying to get cute.. its they way we joke... and in this case, being rude... is mainly ego...
theres a movie: Forgetting Sarah Micheal or sumthing....... guys are like Vampires... and in this case, he is a Vampire.... It hurts him more to hurt her cuz when a vampire bites (kiss) the woman he loves, she die... and he will loose her... over and over again no matter how many times he falls in love... for vampires, its d curse... for humans, the curse is EGO.... remember i said guys have ego and its a huge ego.... well, that makes us hard to be sensitive and dunno how to express it but by anger..... :)
*so, tell ur friend this... but never let her tell him this... He will use his weakness (this statement) as her weakness....
You yourself have the answers here.... as you can see... He flirts.... But stay loyal to your friend... meaning to say that He loves her, but he can't fight his boyish nature to flirt, and be cheeky... guys are like dat... even though he may seem to flirt and see other girls, but he will always subconsciously reminds himself "Its impossible for me to get her (the one's he's flirting with or staring at) or coincidently meet her again....so why waste my time on wanting and blow sumthing that is here"...
After breaking up, being rough is normal.... both are behaving like that due to their history of breaking up.... both felt the pain and actually acts sarcastically between one and another... their rough and bad expression between them is actually their sarcastic way of saying... "you hurt me... am gonna hurt you" again ego sets both sides appart... and again, sumwhere in a room in them, there's a door leading to a "BUT....." room filled with words "... I LOVE HIM/HER"....
Forgetting birthdays, are normal... for guys, its not that important... well, it is important, but guys seemed to be care less... Girls have lots and lots of favourites... and he might have the problem of what is what... ahahah.... Bluffing is a way guys trying to get cute.. its they way we joke... and in this case, being rude... is mainly ego...
theres a movie: Forgetting Sarah Micheal or sumthing....... guys are like Vampires... and in this case, he is a Vampire.... It hurts him more to hurt her cuz when a vampire bites (kiss) the woman he loves, she die... and he will loose her... over and over again no matter how many times he falls in love... for vampires, its d curse... for humans, the curse is EGO.... remember i said guys have ego and its a huge ego.... well, that makes us hard to be sensitive and dunno how to express it but by anger..... :)
*so, tell ur friend this... but never let her tell him this... He will use his weakness (this statement) as her weakness....
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